Are you a Parent?

 Worried about your Teenage SON or Daughter?

 FEARFUL for their SAFETY?

WORRIED about their FUTURE?

 Tired of all the yelling, screaming, anger, door slamming and reckless and rebellious behavior?

Lost RESPECT for you as their PARENT?

Have you stopped sleeping? Are you Waiting for the phone to ring? Waiting for that knock on the door in the middle of the night? Scared of what they might be doing; smoking, Sexting, Vaping, drugsdrinking, hanging around with the wrong crowd and who knows what else?
Is the pressure of all this making you depressed, distant and neglecting your life, your spouse and other children?

HERE IS THE REALITY OF IT ALL!
SUICIDE IS THE 2nd LEADING CAUSE OF DEATHS AMONG 15-24 YEAR OLD'S.
DRUG OVERDOSES ARE THE 4th LEADING CAUSE OF DEATHS AMONG 15-24 YEAR OLD'S.

Are you beyond being overwhelmed? You believed you have tried everything. But you feel as though you are making things worse? 
Are you losing hope? Do you sit there and wonder why this is happening to you? Asking yourself what happened to that loving child I once embraced?
Are you waiting for the next shoe to drop?

Well don't stress you are not alone. There are so many parents out their struggling with the same challenges with their children...but they won't say a word about it...especially in the social media world we live in. Everyone on Facebook has a perfect life. THAT IS SO UNTRUE.
But you still fear being judged as being a bad parent?

It's time to stop the self punishment and make a decision to do something different.
Learn the parenting skills you need to reconnect with your child, break down all those walls they have put up and parent them to becoming a successful teen who 
loves themselves and you.

TESTIMONIALS FROM Parents WHO HAVE BEEN making strides to reconnect with their troubled teens

Yes, you believe you have tried it all? Yet, they are still defiant. Doing what they want, when they want and turning you and your family's world into a living nightmare. They say terrible things to you, ignore you, belittle you, make you feel stupid, lie, create chaos and they seem to be on a fast track to drugs, prison or death!
THEY HAVE NO REGARD FOR ANYONE ELSE'S FEELINGS.
THEY HAVE NO RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES OR YOU AS THEIR PARENT.
  • Hanging around with friends you don't approve of.
  •  Sleeping all day and stay out all night.
  •  Obsessed with video games.
  • ​Ignore your phone calls.
  • ​Afraid what they are going to do next
  • Started vaping.
  • Falling behind in school.
  • Stopped going to school.
  • ​Quit their job.
  • ​Don't have a job
  • ​Drinking alcohol.
  • ​Become untrustworthy
  • ​Stealing from you.
  •  Smoking weed.
  •  Doing drugs.
  •  Never listens to anything you have to say.
  • ​Constantly getting in trouble.
  • ​Hating and Resenting you
  • ​Don't appreciate anything
  • ​Have talked about running away
  • Depressed and distant.
  •  Talking about suicide.
  • Abusive to you and their siblings.
  • ​Been arrested.
  • ​Been to jail.
  • ​Becoming Aggressive and violent.
  • ​They are entitled
Yes, you believe you have tried everything. 
Punishment.
Grounding.
Stripped them of their technology.
Forbid them from hanging around certain people
You have yelled, screamed and blew up on them.
Tried therapy for them.
Tried therapy for yourself.
Tried therapy for the dog. Well maybe not yet.
Tried good parent, bad parent
You have stopped their allowance.
Banned them from social media.
Am I missing anything?
You have tried tough love and soft love?
Punishment never works. It only fuels their anger and
creates revenge fueled fantasies.
LET ME GUESS. None of this has worked!
So, What's next?
They know that you have no leverage on them that is why none of this worked!
THEY ARE THE ONES WITH ALL THE LEVERAGE. Because as a parent our job is to keep them safe and secure in hopes that one day they will grow up to be a successful adult that will move out of your house, go to school, get a job and one day thank you fora all your troubles.
THEY KNOW THAT IS IS YOUR JOB AS A PARENT. 
UNFORTUNATELY, THEY HAVE MADE IT THEIR JOB TO MAKE YOURS AS 
HARD AS POSSIBLE.
BUT WHY?
Because you don't understand the world they are living in and they don't understand the world you are coming from.
It becomes a battle of egos with the people we are supposed to love the most.
Our research working in prisons, sober homes, substance abuse clinics has shown that a high percentage of teens that go down the wrong path do so because of a parenting failure, neglect or the inability to communicate properly with their parent.

Our research also shows that their troubling behavior can begin as early as 10 years old. When a child becomes disconnected from their parent they loose that beacon of light then need to find themselves and become successful in life.
They end up disconnecting for a range or reasons; divorce, working parents, traveling parents, not enough time with parents, parents not seeing or hearing them, trauma at a young age, loss of a loved one or unaddressed mental health issues to name a few.

THEY LOSE THEIR CONNECTION WITH US AND GET CONNECTED WITH THEIR TEEN TRIBE
THAT IS BAD FOR EVERYONE BECAUSE THEY LOSE THEIR POWER TO THINK AS
AN INDIVIDUAL AND MAKE THEIR OWN CHOICES.
WHICH IS GOING TO BE THE WORST CASE FOR YOU AS A PARENT AND THEIR FUTURE.

What do you need as a Parent?
A way to connect with your child?
A way to communicate with them in their language?
 A way to bring them back into your Parenting Sphere of Influence?
A way to get them to understand your feelings?
A way to parent them to success and have a better life than you had?
A way for everyone to get along and be a loving family that you always 
dreamed of having?
A way to find peace in your life?
A way to find a way to eliminate your stress, sleepless nights and anxiety?
Does this sound about right?
DO YOU NEED A FREE CLASS ON HOW TO RAISE A SUCCESSFUL TEEN?
Who is confident, loving, compassionate, respectful and wants to be a successful adult and loves you for the human being and loving parent you are?

Your Prayers have been answered

THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE AND SMALL WINDOWS OF OPPORTUNITY TO REACH THEM BEFORE IT'S TO LATE.
THEY KEY TO FINDING THE WINDOWS IS RESOURCEFULNESS!
or
YOU COULD GO BACK TO YOUR PHONE AND 
SCROLL THROUGH FACEBOOK AND SEE EVERYONE'S "PERFECT LIFE!!!".
WATCH THE CRISIS NEWS NETWORK AND SEE SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE BLOW UP.
CATCH UP ON SOME RIDICULOUS REALITY TV SHOW. WISHING THAT WERE YOUR LIFE.
GO BACK TO BED HOPING YOU CAN SLEEP TONIGHT. 
PRAYING THAT THE PHONE DOESN'T RING AND NOBODY KNOCKS ON YOUR DOOR WITH THAT NEWS THAT NO PARENT IS EVER PREPARED FOR.
KEEP LIVING A LIFE THAT EVERYONE ELSE IS CONTROLLING.
WAKE UP 20 YEARS LATER AND WISH YOU HAD TRIED TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT ABOUT IT.
OR YOU CAN STEP UP NOW AND SEIZE AN OPPORTUNITY TO BE RESOURCEFUL AND ATTEMPT SOME THINGS 
THAT YOU HAVEN'T TRIED.
THE WINDOWS DON'T STAY OPEN FOREVER.
WHEN THEY SHUT THOSE OPPORTUNITIES 
CAN NEVER BE RECAPTURED.
SOMETIMES WHEN THEY SHUT...THEY SHUT FOR GOOD!
THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO A PARENT IS HAVING A REGRET ABOUT NOT GIVING IT 1000%.
DON'T REGRET NOT TAKING THIS OPPORTUNITY!
Because sometimes second chances are not guaranteed. 
BELIEVE ME I KNOW. I LOST MY SON 4 YEARS AGO AND THAT IS WHY I DO THIS. IF I CAN HELP SAVE ONE CHILD AND ONE PARENT FROM THIS HORROR THEN I AM HONORING THE PROMISE I MADE TO MY SON RICHIE.
ALL IT TAKES IS STEP #1 TO CREATE THAT SHIFT YOU NEED TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THEIR WORLD AND YOURS.